Deepness of Father-Son Relationship: Let's Feel it!

Every person has his idolize hero in life.That hero is his father by the way,what is hero and what makes him hero in his own son’s perception.According to child the Hero is that who encourage him,save him and never let him down when his son faces the problems.Actually the father deserves the title “Hero”.

And what is son to father.Son is his mirror.Son is bless of god for father, who gave him the greatest honor to be the “Father”. He observes his shadow in the form of his son. In other words “son is the second birth of father". Father always want his son to live decent and happy life.He would not like to see his son face those bad times(failures,mistakes)which he had experience already.So,he always have a plan and route map to live life for his son.Despite of school and college,son already have a teacher in father.

Growing period of son:

As the time passes physical and mental level of child has changing.He start spending time outside with friends and mates in school and institute. He keeps learning life aspects from external sources.For son this period of life stage seems just to enjoy and to welcome for any experience. He don’t know the difference between right and wrong. However, he don’t have any regret whatever he did.He already knows that there is hero(father) to protect him,to forgive him for mistakes(even he didn’t have any idea about mistake)he did.

How the Hero Transform into Enemy:

Now the Son start treating his most idolize Hero as his enemy just because of these reason:

• Father insist his son to wear helmet while driving his motorcycle outside.

• Father don’t give him extra money for his useless(not for him,but actually)expenditures.
• Father scold him because of his late night night parties.
• Father want him to attend lectures in college daily.

All these things cause the son to ignore his father most of the times.He made his thoughts more narrow (disgusting sometimes.Now he don’t think it’s important to take permission from his father for anything.He start accusing his father and automatically,he decrease the level of respect for his father. On the other hand,father always remain a father.His love for his son never decrease.But it’s hard to overcome the unbearable pain of getting hurt by his own son.

Reverse turn of the time:

Now the time take the reverse turn.He(son)get to marry and have his own son with-in some time.And the time brought up all that phase of his childhood back and replay the movie in front of his eyes.But,now he play the character of hero.Because he is the father this time.As his son start growing,he start realizing each and everything he had done in his childhood.And now he face the same situation what his dad had faced.Now,his son need all such things like extra freedom,extra pocket money and much more.Finally he realize that when he was treating his father as enemy,that time his father was his best friend(actually hero).He realize his mistakes but unfortunately, it's simply impossible to go back to that time and make the correction.

You think that you've faced all such things and realizing your mistakes now. Remember, every second is the best time to say Sorry.Just Rush to your father (if he is fortunately alive)hug him tightly and say SORRY. Tell him that he is the most powerful superhero in your life. He is the one who provide you the best protection through out your life. Believe me, he'll forgive you for every worst thing you had done to him and hug you more tightly than you did.

"Even his bones are not such strong now", but he'll protect you till the very end of his Life".